Gifts for growing families
People often think new parents are in survival mode 24/7. ”More diapers, stat!” “Did that feeding start at 2:12am or 2:32am?” “Where did you put the thermometer?!” There are, of course, moments of panic, but there are a lot of lulls during the newborn phase too—moments where you can stop and reflect on the many small victories that got you to that point. The thing is, sometimes new parents need to be reminded to step back from the whirlwind and celebrate how far they’ve come. That’s where you come in.
Unless they’ve requested something specific or have unfulfilled items on a registry, opt for something celebratory. Even if they have requested something specific, throwing in a special surprise will go a long way for someone with nowhere near enough capacity to treat themselves. Flowers, special beverages, and treats are a great option, but if you’re looking for something a little more memorable, consider these categories…
Entertainment for when they’re pinned down:
Magazines
Wireless headphones
Streaming subscription
To commemorate the new addition:
Minted.com gift certificate for baby photo prints, birth announcements, or nursery decor
Picture frames
Personalized blanket or apparel
When they need a break but can’t get away:
Body scrub or body wash (when a shower is the vacation)
Massage gun (holding a babe all the time takes its toll)
Extra hands: dog walking, vacuuming, folding laundry—it sounds painfully kitschy but these things are really hard when you can’t put down a little one (instead of “let me know if you need anything” try “I’m coming over on Sunday to help with A, B, or C.”
Older sibling gifts
Becoming an older sibling is a big transition and something that should be celebrated. As tempting as matching outfits are, older siblings likely want to feel independent and expressive with a new baby at home. Bonus points for gifts that keep them busy so parents get a moment’s peace (and don’t make noise that would wake a sleeping newborn).
Backpack or fanny pack
Poloroid camera
Something imprinted with the name or initials on it
Floor puzzle
Puppets (which can also help entertain the baby)
Craft supplies (stickers, a coloring book, markers, easel)
Play-Doh or building set
Imaginative play: play cooking set, doctor kit, costumes
Climbing gym or play tent
Scooter or ride-on toy
Bringing meals for a growing family
It’s hard for anyone to be patient, loving, and kind on an empty stomach. First off, whatever you bring, the recipient will appreciate even the smallest bit of help. If you’re going for a slam dunk, here are a few tips:
Disposable containers that won’t pile up awaiting return
Prepared meals or those that need minimal assembly
Something fresh (fruit, veggies, salad—if they’re like me, they’re getting granola-bar fatigue; dry goods are convenient but get old fast when there’s time for nothing else
Bonus points: breakfast for the next morning, wine, a card, or dessert 👇
